Humm, Someone Made Me Think

Ok one of my friends sends me 10 questions a letter she gets from a book. I am posting this because other than a few random projects I have been helping on I really have nothing new to post here. I have been in country for over a year now, and not much surprises me anymore. I have realized I may have been here too long, and I still have a year to go. Example: I am laying in bed and it is 3 in the morning. I am awakened to the sound of a mouse or rat rustling through a pile of papers on the floor on the other side of my hut. Most people would just roll over and go back to sleep and hope the trap gets him. Well I went straight up Gambian on his little furry butt. I grabbed my machete off the wall where it hangs with the rest of my tools, and I go to hacking at him like my life depended on it. I did not manage to kill him, just wounded him and my floor. My floor now sports some nice divots from where I did miss with the machete. Ah well the trap got him later that night. I was ok with that.

Ok back to the questions.

1)Do you squeeze the toothpaste tube or roll it? What is the advantage of your method?

101) Are yo a hugger or a non-hugger? Why?

201) What is your favorite ice cream brand and flavor?

301) What is one of your greatest achievements?

401) If you could be invisible for a day what would you do?

501) What does “success” mean to you?

601) What is one regret you live with?

701) What was the last time you cried? Why?

801) Why do you think there are so many different religions in the world?

901) When and how often do you pray? What motivates you to pray?

Answers

1a) I squeeze the tube, and I have no idea why. I am not sure there is an advantage, just the way I have always done it.

101a) I am a hugger, again no idea why.

201a) Seriously- I mean come on I have not had ice cream in over a year and I am suppose to remember brands and flavors. Ok when I left I was a fan of Bryers ( I think this is how you spell it, the one in the black box) French vanilla, but at this point I would take just about any kind of ice cream

301a) Living it right now. I mean come on how cool is this. I get paid to live in a foreign country and just be here. See story above for an example.

401a) Well I think I would want to be invisible on Super Bowl Sunday. Then I would go stand on the side lines and watch, the most watch sporting event, live.

501a) Humm, Well success to me is the process in which character is developed and refined. Let me explain. (These questions are getting harder) Now in life you might get what you want and you might not, but regardless of the outcome. If you learn, grow, and develop skills and talents than that job was successful. So will Peace Corps help me to get the job of my dreams, maybe or maybe not. Will I change the way all Gambians live, probably not. Who knows, but if I learn and grow as a person while I am here than my time here was successful.

601a) I am not sure I have any regrets. I have things I wish I had not done. I have made choice that were foolish and not helpful in any way shape or form, but I don’t regret them. Some of those foolish choices give me insights into people and their motives, so why would I regret something that actually serves me in life. At the time I regretted making those choices, but I would not know what I do today without those choices.

701a) About a year ago. Ask me in person and I will tell you.

801a) Well at the risk of offending a bunch of people. Here goes. If you wonder where I stand read the top banner. The reason for the different religions, IN MY OPINION, is because people as a whole have been trying to find a way to justify our life without god. So basically from the fall till today we have been at war with a loving god. While he wages war with love and forgiveness. We are not so kind. We have raised images, stories, and other “truths”. To justify our life and try to give ourselves purpose and worth. Sorry if this offends, just my opinion.

901a) Well here is a weakness of mine. I do not pray very often. Maybe once or twice a week. I am usually motivated by troubles or problems in my life or others. Which is never what prayer was meant for, and while I realize this I keep trying to use prayer as a repair man call.

So that is the end of the first 10. I have 10 more that I will post some time. I figure this might generate some comments and I might have to explain somethings before we continue. So feel free to answer these questions yourself and

~ by mattcarte on 12/23/2010.

3 Responses to “Humm, Someone Made Me Think”

  1. Well, since you STILL haven’t posted anything else, I’ll be the one to comment on an old post. :P

    1)Do you squeeze the toothpaste tube or roll it? What is the advantage of your method?
    Squeeze. Rolling requires more forward-thinking than I am capable of in the morning. Sure, it solves the end-of-the-tube problem, but who thinks about that when the tube is mostly full?

    101) Are yo a hugger or a non-hugger? Why?
    Hugs are good for the soul. I am automatically leery of non-huggers.

    201) What is your favorite ice cream brand and flavor?
    Hmmm… something from Sparky’s in CoMO probably. Something not-so-sweet, like Coffee.

    301) What is one of your greatest achievements?
    I’m pretty sure learning how to tie shoes has had a pretty positive impact on my existence. Less tripping and whatnot.

    401) If you could be invisible for a day what would you do?
    Derby-tackle the crud out of some completely unsuspecting roller babes.

    501) What does “success” mean to you?
    Usually, laughter. If the people around me are smiling, well-fed, and laughing, then I’m not doing half-bad.

    601) What is one regret you live with?
    Ooh. Well, that’s a doozy. One that probably doesn’t merit shouting across the interwebz.

    701) What was the last time you cried? Why?
    A few days ago; frustrated with my failure to win against assorted inner demons.

    801) Why do you think there are so many different religions in the world?
    We have God-shaped holes. Everyone is trying to fill them with something.

    901) When and how often do you pray? What motivates you to pray?
    Lately, not much. I’ve been bogging down in a lot of self-pity and shame lately, and haven’t been too willing to share the mess with a squeaky-clean savior. Unfortunately, if I’m praying, it’s usually out of fear or desperation.

  2. 1)Do you squeeze the toothpaste tube or roll it? What is the advantage of your method?–Squeeze….It just seems faster

    101) Are yo a hugger or a non-hugger? Why?
    –Hugger….Hugs are nice

    201) What is your favorite ice cream brand and flavor?–Birthday Cake Cold Stone

    301) What is one of your greatest achievements?-Questions like this are hard for me. I am proud that I am a collge graduate.. I am proud that I have a good job. Both are good achievements but do not come with out help from somebody else. So I would like to think that someday my Greatest Achievement would come in the way of me helping somebody else to be great.

    401) If you could be invisible for a day what would you do?

    501) What does “success” mean to you?—Loving friends and family! A job that you are happy with. Being able to do what you want to do when you want to do it.

    601) What is one regret you live with?—My last convo with my dad was about baseball. I would give anything to have it been about something else.

    701) What was the last time you cried? Why? Yesterday….Homesick. Matt I am only 8 hours away from home and I get homesick. This was the first Christmas I had not been with my family. It was a lot harder than I thought. Than I got to thinking about you and how this is the 2nd Christmas, and you are on the other side of the world. Also the Men and Woman who are in the service, and realized that I am going to be home in two weeks, and in the grand scheme of the world its not so bad.

    801) Why do you think there are so many different religions in the world?—-Down deep they all have the same beliefs. I think it is the way translation works. They believe in a Higher Power, the Pray to a Being, and They strive to be the best person the can be. They also believe in an afterlife. All religions are a little different…We are very lucky that we can believe what we believe.

    901) When and how often do you pray? What motivates you to—God and I have our One on Ones every week or so. I send little thoughts and prayers to him throught out day/week. When I pray I try very had to thank him for life, and the blessings that come with it along with my troubles and my friends troubles. I try for the ratio to be even. It does not always work out that way…But I try…

    Thanks Matt for sharring the questions.

    Erin

  3. Matthew, I am glad that you were having a good time when we called this morning. I am so anxious to see you! I will answer the questions:
    1. squeeze until it gets close to empty and then I push from the bottom
    2. hugger
    3. peppermint–the really good ice cream (Cold Stone–is that the name? I have only been there once.)
    4. Raising two wonderful sons!
    5. If I could be invisible, I would be on a space shuttle.
    6. Having a loving family, having a roof over my head, having food on the table, and having a fun job would be success to me.
    7. I regret never being in the school band.
    8. Today
    9. We are given choice–that is the way God wanted it. I feel blessed to be born in a Christian country–I wonder if I would have different beliefs had I been raised Jewish or Muslim or Buddhist. Would I still believe in the birth, life, and death of Christ.
    10. I pray every day–not the kind where I am on my knees beside my bed. But I offer up prayers of thanks and prayers for my family throughout the day.

    See you soon, Matthew. Love, Mom

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